i've never been good at playing hard to get. i've always been more of a come and get it kind of girl. despite the very dirty connotation my cousin insinuated on my facebook wall, this is me to a T. i HATE waiting for someone else to make a move...whether it's in relationships, at work, at church, with pretty much anything. i do not like waiting for the unknown. i would rather put it all on the table and move on from there.
i remember the last relationship i was in. it was an old friend of mine and we reconnected through some random circumstances. anyway, he was a long way from colorado so the beginning stages took place via phone calls and text messages. my heart would leap inside my chest when i heard my phone ding! because no one else ever texted me. finally, after what seemed like ages, he brought up the direction of our relationship. i think i even said "i've been waiting for you to bring this up!" and really it had been about 3 weeks, which was an eternity for me!
when left to my own devices i just get right in there. i don't like to wait to be pursued, which is what many of my friends have told me i should do as the girl. ugh. i mean, great for them if they find a guy who pursues them. i just don't have to patience to wait and wait. i get antsy. and i call people. and i say things like "so, i dig you. is this going anywhere?"
so while my friends are waiting for the man who will pursue them, i'm waiting for the man who won't be scared by how forward i am.
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